I’m Afraid Things Will Get Worse When I File A Restraining Order

If you have lived life in the cycle of violence for any amount of time, you know what it means to walk on eggshells. Any period of stress can trigger a violent episode, which can mean verbal, physical, or sexual abuse for the victim. Although the period after the incident is the best time to seek help, sometimes the help itself can trigger more violence. Because of the numerous threats of their abusers, victims might be terrified to seek legal protection through a restraining order, fearing it may set their abuser off once again.

What is a restraining order/protective order?

A protective order is an order issued by a court telling one individual to stay away from another individual. That person cannot hurt, threaten, communicate or in any way be near the person seeking protection. This is also referred to as a protection order, restraining order, civil protective or restraining order.

How do protective orders work?

In order to obtain a restraining order, you will need to follow the procedures for your particular district or county. This process may include some of the following steps:

Appear in front of a judge and explain why you want a protective order.

Be able to show or explain why you need protection.

The orders must be served to the person you want restrained on physical property.

The orders will only be temporary until the permanent protective order hearing.

The judge will automatically make the orders permanent if the restrained person does not appear to the permanent protective order hearing.

The restrained person must notify you if they want the orders changed.

The Danger of Protective Orders

Especially in domestic violence situations, it is common for an abuser to become even more angry, violent and hostile after they become aware that their victim has filed for legal protection. It is important to be aware of local resources, shelters and family safety centers where you can have legal protection from your abuser during this volatile time.

Orange County Divorce and Domestic Violence Attorney

Claims of domestic violence must be handled in a firm, decisive manner. If you are a victim of spousal abuse or danger in your home and need a restraining order, help is available. The Law Office of Ann A. Thomson in Orange County provided protection for victims of domestic violence throughout Southern California. Call Ann’s office at 562-431-4333 or contact her for information or to request a free initial consultation.

From offices in Seal Beach, the Law Office of Ann A. Thomson serves clients throughout Southern California in communities such as Seal Beach, Santa Ana, Brea, Yorba Linda, Fullerton, Corona Del Mar, Costa Mesa, Newport Beach, Irvine, Laguna Beach, Dana Point, Mission Viejo, San Clemente, San Juan Capistrano, Anaheim, Fountain Valley, Garden Grove, Long Beach, Huntington Beach, Norwalk, Torrance, Rancho Palos Verdes and Los Angeles.